Man Says Secret To 'Happy Marriage' Is Cheating On His Wife Regularly

A man who has had five affairs in the last seven years said that the key to his happy marriage is cheating on his wife.
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Updated Jun 13, 2023 | 08:21 AM IST

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KEY HIGHLIGHTS
  • Nate, 36, said that his romantic life with his wife is "too vanilla" and he's tired of initiating it
  • Despite having an active physical relationship with his wife, Nate said that his extramarital affairs add "spice" to his life
  • He said that his marriage is successful because of his extramarital affairs
A man who has had five affairs in the last seven years said that the key to his happy marriage is cheating on his wife.
Nate, 36, said that his romantic life with his wife is "too vanilla" and he's tired of initiating it. Despite having an active physical relationship with his wife, Nate said that his extramarital affairs add "spice" to his life.
"I only see one woman at a time - juggling multiple women is way too stressful," Nate told FEMAIL.
Nate meets the women, who are also married, during the day or in the evening. They work at flexible jobs or make an excuse to get out.
"We chat through web-based chat or video chat apps - Telegram, Google chat etc. and I usually chat during work hours or late evening," he said.
Nate deletes any messages, photos or videos from his phone before going home. He also has a separate bank account that he uses to to withdraw cash and pay for dates, lingerie and hotels.
Talking about feeling guilty about cheating on his wife, Nate said that he only felt it during the first affair. "I learned to compartmentalise those feelings of guilt and just enjoy," he said.
He said, "I've been very careful and have drawn the line in places where I feel I might be getting in too deep with someone."
He said that his marriage is successful because of his extramarital affairs.
He added, "My wife and I are really good friends and spend a lot of quality time together."
However, she doesn't want to discuss their romantic life. "Asking her what she might enjoy or what pleasure she'd like is met with stony silence," Nate said.
Nate said that he would be "a little bit annoyed" if he found out that his wife was cheating on him. But it would open up the opportunity to have an active conversation with his wife and might bring an end to his affairs.
He said, "To be honest, I'd find it a huge turn on to know my wife was having fun with another guy, girl or couple and hearing about it afterwards."
"I want her to research what she might enjoy, what I might enjoy," he further said.
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